🔗 Diaper Reveal
Surrogacy gender reveal online: include your surrogate, live
If your surrogate lives far away, she does not have to hear the news afterwards. Create a free party, send one link, and at the time you choose she, your families and your friends open it on their own phones and find out together, live.
Free · No app · No sign-up
Why do it online
She is there, not just told
Your surrogate can join the live room from her own home, even in another city or country, and see the reveal as it happens, at the same moment as you and your families.
One link for everyone
Make a free party and send the link or 6-letter code to your surrogate, your parents and your friends. Everyone uses the same one.
Nothing to install
Guests open the link in their phone's browser, type a name and they are in. No app, no account, no password.
Their own time zone
Add a date and time. Each guest sees the start time in their own time zone and can save it to their calendar.
What to write when you invite everyone
Ask your surrogate first and privately. Copy one and change the names.
- To your surrogate: "We would love for you to be there when we find out. Would you like to join us online on Saturday at 6 pm? Totally your choice, and we will celebrate with you either way."
- To family: "We are finding out together on Saturday at 6 pm, and our surrogate will be joining. Tap the link and be there with us."
- To close friends: "Our baby's reveal is Saturday at 6 pm. Same link for everyone, wherever you are."
What you share, and with whom, is for you and your surrogate to agree. More in our guide to celebrating after IVF, surrogacy or adoption.
From link to the big moment
Create the party
Name it and add the date and time. Ask your surrogate whether she would like to join.
Send the link
One link or 6-letter code for everyone, wherever they are. Invite her first, privately.
Reveal together
Everyone joins the same live room at once, so she sees the reveal as it happens. Play the short game if you like and let everyone leave wishes for the baby. The host gets a film of the reactions to keep.
Surrogacy gender reveal online: your questions
Can my surrogate join the gender reveal online?
Yes, if she wants to. She opens the same link on her phone, types a name and joins the same live room as you and your guests, from her own home or anywhere else. Ask her first and let her decide; joining should always be her choice.
Do we have to do a gender reveal at all?
No. The party works as a live family moment on its own: you welcome everyone, play the short game if you like and leave wishes for the baby. The gender reveal is optional.
How do we ask our surrogate without putting pressure on her?
Invite her privately before the group message, say it is entirely her choice, and tell her you will celebrate with her either way. A sample message is on this page. How much you share, and with whom, is for you and her to agree.
Is it free?
Yes. Creating the party, sharing the link and playing are free. No card is required.
Does she need an app or an account?
No. Guests open the link in their phone's browser (or type the 6-letter code), enter a name and they are in.
Can we keep it private?
Only people who have the link or the 6-letter code can join, so you decide who gets it. Share it with the people you choose and nobody else.
Does it work if she lives in another country?
Yes. The same link works on any phone, on any network, in any country, and everyone joins the same live moment. Each person sees the start time in their own time zone.
Keep planning
Your reveal link in about two minutes
Set it up today and send it whenever you and your surrogate are ready. The link keeps working until the party.
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